Have a career advice or debt free question? Click the ASKPB button! This week’s question was so good we couldn’t help but dedicate a full show to our response. Apparently, the DMs aren’t the only place it goes down. A few snippets:

I always thought they were taboo but people at my current company frequently engage in dalliances and full blown relationships – sometimes resulting in marriage! The fact that so many people seem to be finding long term love at my company while I remain single is making me reconsider my stance. Many of us work long hours so there isn’t sufficient time outside of work to devote to finding love. There is also a sense of security in being already familiar with an officemate, and knowing they passed the same background check as I did. What are your thoughts? When, if ever, is it worth it to pursue a romantic relationship with someone at your workplace?

We also discuss when it’s appropriate to consult with your Human Resources and the pros and cons of taking this approach.

Is it ever your responsibility to share knowledge of someone else’s interoffice romance with HR or managers? I never thought about snitching because of the potential negative repercussions for me and I didn’t want them getting in trouble. Outside of me just being a hater, their relationship is an HR issue. They are potentially up for a new position in which their partner would be their supervisor and that goes against policy since they could potentially show favoritism. Based on their current behavior, I see that being a reality. Is it unethical to mind my business and ignore the best interests of the company, or would it be underhanded and unnecessary to spill the beans?


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